| NoSkiveez |
| Posted 4/1/2008 4:17:44 PM |
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| Quote lakid1: You could at least put it in more kinder words. |
You mean sugar coat it. |
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| boswer |
| Posted 4/1/2008 5:21:06 PM |
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Quote CannonFarms: with having the jobs that sue has had she has the right to be brutality honest and strait forward and I respect her for that.
I do believe that the kids should have a little different aproach but hey,... |
Give me a break!! Brutallity obnoxious.
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/2/2008 2:56:02 PM |
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| Quote maligirl1: ok fine do not be so brutal, but you can't have it both ways.it seems like everytime you disagree with somebody they are wrong ,not you.not everyone is going to agree with everything you post/say.but to... |
I never said I was never wrong. I know that I can be wrong sometimes and I do not care if nobody agrees with me when I post. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/2/2008 2:58:01 PM |
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| Quote NoSkiveez: You mean sugar coat it. |
Uh... no I do not. |
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| my_pooch_esme |
| Posted 4/2/2008 6:57:09 PM |
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Quote moggie:  lakid....you should see what she said to me...however i have to tell you it is good you are sticking up for yourself...you have to learn that there are all kinds of people in this world...unfortunately... |
 It's great you are sticking up for yourself. I have been put down many times by her when I only needed help with my dogs. Isn't that what forums like this are about??? |
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| my_pooch_esme |
| Posted 4/2/2008 6:58:04 PM |
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Quote boswer: Give me a break!! Brutallity obnoxious.
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hear hear |
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| arachyd |
| Posted 4/2/2008 7:41:20 PM |
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"You could at least put it in more kinder words."
Nope. I post to state facts or my opinion, not to please or displease you. Too often if we gloss over things with politeness and sugar-coat things they are simply not taken seriously. I have personally experienced 2 wonderful, loving dogs losing their lives because I could not convince the owner of one of them that there was a problem. No matter what I said she simply put on her rose-colored glasses and said it wasn't really that bad. Her Dog ended up killing another Dog and being put to sleep. This particular situation was very much preventable. There are hundreds of similar situations where we word things strongly and might be considered harsh but start reading some of our posts-most of us aren't mean, just very serious about being understood. Ok, well some are mean but not me  Another thing, you can't tell how I meant to say something from looking at words on a screen. The sentences are short and clipped and to-the-point because nobody likes to read a post that takes a whole page. As a general rule read a post with the idea that is is being said with a smile and you'll probably be very close to the truth in most cases. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/9/2008 3:57:59 PM |
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Quote arachyd: "You could at least put it in more kinder words."
Nope. I post to state facts or my opinion, not to please or displease you. Too often if we gloss over things with politeness and sugar-coat things they... |
That is not true. People will give you trouble if you are not polite. If ypu want to say something then say the polite way. That way you will have a lot less trouble and people will respect you more. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/9/2008 4:06:23 PM |
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Quote arachyd: "You could at least put it in more kinder words."
Nope. I post to state facts or my opinion, not to please or displease you. Too often if we gloss over things with politeness and sugar-coat things they... |
Well that is her and not me. Just because she didn't listen odesn't mean I won't. Brutality is NOT the answer when you are trying to amke a point. I understand that you are older than I am and have a job and under a lot of stress, I really do, but don't you think that that is a reason why you should be brutal? I go to school and it is not easy. We have E.O.I testing and it is really frustrating. I want to be brutal as well but I keep a civil toungue. And I think that you should to. Trust me, even though I am only a teenager, Brutality is not the way to go, I have been there and you do not get a lot of respect when you are brutal to everyone you see especially the little ones. |
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| arachyd |
| Posted 4/11/2008 7:14:30 PM |
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Considering you don't know much if anything about me, my work situation or my stress level you basically don't know what you are talking about. You demonstrate the childish characteristic of insisting that people must be polite to you. They/we don't. That's just how it is. The world is not a warm, fuzzy place. I have not said anything "brutal" to you. You have given foolish advice. When it is clearly explained why it is bad advice (and there is no way you can possibly still believe it was good advice) you insist on arguing that people are being rude which really has nothing to do with the topic. Rudeness is not the same as disagreeing in the real world. |
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| wayne headlee |
| Posted 4/11/2008 10:01:58 PM |
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i knew a guy had a pit was a black and white didnt do the ears or tail and never had any trouble in a place w the no pit bull laws???? |
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| PerfectPom |
| Posted 4/12/2008 1:15:33 AM |
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| Quote arachyd: Considering you don't know much if anything about me, my work situation or my stress level you basically don't know what you are talking about. You demonstrate the childish characteristic of insisting... |
AMEN!!! this sniviling  kid is getting  |
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| razorblade |
| Posted 4/12/2008 7:03:45 AM |
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You should talk about sinema's problem and not about yourselves. I think fighting among humans is worst than fighting among dogs.  |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 9:30:21 AM |
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| Quote razorblade: You should talk about sinema's problem and not about yourselves. I think fighting among humans is worst than fighting among dogs. |
That is right. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 9:31:34 AM |
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| Quote arachyd: Considering you don't know much if anything about me, my work situation or my stress level you basically don't know what you are talking about. You demonstrate the childish characteristic of insisting... |
Watch your words. I know the world is not always kind but you can at least be. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 9:33:11 AM |
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| Quote PerfectPom: AMEN!!! this sniviling kid is getting |
F.Y.I: I am not a sniviling kid. In fact the last time I checked I am not a kid at all. I am a teenager. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 9:37:38 AM |
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| Quote arachyd: Considering you don't know much if anything about me, my work situation or my stress level you basically don't know what you are talking about. You demonstrate the childish characteristic of insisting... |
You are right, I don't know anyhting about you. But tbat doesn't mean that I can not tell you your stress level. People can determine your stress level on how you respond like now. And this is just a guess: Your boss is giving you a hard time at work and you are piled in paperwork? |
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| gbat1stop |
| Posted 4/14/2008 1:23:54 PM |
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| Quote lakid1: You are right, I don't know anyhting about you. But tbat doesn't mean that I can not tell you your stress level. People can determine your stress level on how you respond like now. And this is just a guess:... |
Like I always tell my teenage kids, "Sometimes even the truth hurts."
You need to determine what is intentionally rude, percieved as rude and what is an opinion that differs from yours. Teenager or not, you are still a kid with alot to learn before you enter into the "Real World" where reality will make you an adult.
Now, what would you predict about my stress level? |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 3:33:50 PM |
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Quote gbat1stop: Like I always tell my teenage kids, "Sometimes even the truth hurts."
You need to determine what is intentionally rude, percieved as rude and what is an opinion that differs from yours. Teenager... |
Your stress level is average. You are neutral. And please, what I said earlier is just a guess, a post, and an opinion. |
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| lakid1 |
| Posted 4/14/2008 4:37:11 PM |
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| Quote arachyd: Lakid, my comments and advice don't change whether you are 15 or 50. Why should you be able to give bad advice and have nobody say anything contrary just because you are 15? Why do you get to backtalk... |
I do not back talk. I give my opinion like everybody else. Shall everyone need to be brutal because of a post? I say nay to this argument and officially declaring this war between our posts over. Let us be smart and stop this nonsense before we lose our heads and our tongues. Let us be neutral and not fight nor exchange vile words that cause the other to retaliate. |
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